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Correct Responders vs First Responders

Leadership
October 28, 2024 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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A letter from Pastor Jeramie Rinne to the Sanibel Community Church

Dear Sanibel Church Family,

It’s Sunday morning, Oct 2, 4:30 am. I’m writing this from a hotel bathroom so as not to wake my wife. I couldn’t have imagined a week ago that this is where I would be today.

Normally on a Sunday morning, I would be waking up around 5:30 am or so and head out for a beach walk with my poodle to pray and think through the sermon I had spent all week preparing. This Sunday in particular would have been the beginning of a new sermon series in Daniel, followed by the Lord’s Supper in our last one-service gathering.

But instead, I’m sitting in a hotel bathroom.

I don’t have a house. My earthly possessions can now fit in my truck. I can’t go to my favorite beach. I have no idea when I will preach again in my pulpit on Sanibel to my beloved congregation. And no, I didn’t get around to studying Daniel much this week.

Where are you this morning?

Some of you are also in hotels on the east coast. Some are staying with family and friends, wondering how long the arrangement will work. Others are up north watching this disaster from a distance, filled with more questions than answers, and plagued by a vexing sense of helplessness. Some are in the Ft Myers area without power or internet or consistent cell service. They can’t even read this email. Some are stuck in shelters at Shell Point because the storm surge wiped out most of the cars there. Some . . . I don’t know where they are.

Is it sinking in yet or are you still in shock? The feelings and thoughts come in waves.

I haven’t had much time or capacity to reflect on the events of the past week.

Most of my mental energy has been spent on trying to coordinate efforts, solve problems and find people. But this morning, sitting in my bathroom office unable to sleep, I find myself in a rare moment of contemplation. I’m thinking about

Psalm 46:1 – 5

“God is our refuge and strength, a helper who is always found in times of trouble.Therefore we will not be afraid though the earth trembles and the mountains topple into the depth of the sea, though the water roars and foams and the mountains quake with it turmoil.” Verses 1-3

The Psalmist meant the roaring sea as a metaphor for turmoil and danger, particularly the danger of hostile nations around Israel. But this week we saw the literal referent for that metaphor. We saw the sea rise up and swallow homes, cars, bridges and lives. The storm cut the causeway islands in half. The incredible power of the sea flung boats and cars all over Iona. Ft Myers beach is completely devastated.

The Psalm describes an earth-shattering ocean storm. These verses will never again be an abstraction for us.

Yet we must not forget how the Psalm begins. “God is our refuge and strength, a helper who is always found in times of trouble.” God is our refuge. No storm touches God. God needs no insurance policy because he reigns above the flood. He is the only safe place. God is our strength. God never loses power or fuel. The Lord doesn’t feel anxious or perturbed and has no troubled thoughts about the future. Our heavenly Father is not passing through phases of shock, grief and despair. The Triune God dwells in perfect peace, joy and delight at all times.

He is not exhausted or depleted. A helper who is always found. Unlike us, our God is not helpless. He isn’t stuck watching the news, imagining himself renting a boat so he can sneak onto the island and do something. He is our helper who is always found in times of trouble. Trouble comes and goes. Hurricanes pass. But our helper never changes or leaves us. Even when our future is uncertain and our lives have been completely overturned, we know these things about God. He is almighty, he is eternal and he loves us.

No wonder the Psalmist can look into the tempest and say “Therefore we will not be afraid.” The psalmist is not in denial about the power of the storm. Rather he beholds the greatness and power and lovingkindness of our Lord toward us. God is infinitely willing and able to help his storm-tossed people. The fury of hurricane Ian is a gentle breeze compared to the might of our savior God.

And if the Psalmist knew these things about the Lord, how much more should we who live in light of the cross. Our Lord Jesus has rendered the ultimate aid. He bore the terrifying storm of God’s wrath to save us from our sins. The cross is our refuge. Jesus is our strength. He is risen and ever present to help us. Let us go to his throne boldly for mercy and grace.

This faith in the Lord as our refuge, strength, and help gives us an internal strength that stands in stark contrast to the chaos of the storm:

Now verses 4, 5, “There is a river—its streams delight the city of God,

the holy dwelling place of the Most High. God is within her, she will not be toppled, God will help her when the morning dawns.”

Yes, there is a raging ocean. But remember there is also a river. From our Lord flows peace and life. We have been shaken but because the Lord is within us, we will not topple.

Look to the Lord brothers and sisters. We won’t topple. We won’t collapse.

Sanibel Community Church still stands—and I’m not talking about the building on Periwinkle.

And this stream isn’t just for us. The Lord wants his living waters to flow out of our lives into the lives of others. I bet even in the pain and confusion of this past week, the thought has crossed your mind, “How will the Lord use this to advance the gospel and display his glory?” Keep asking that question. Turn it into a prayer.

God’s calling on his people to be salt and light and to bear witness to Jesus has not changed. Our mission remains intact. We are still here to multiply maturing disciples of Jesus and healthy churches for the glory of God and the good of the world. All that has changed are the circumstances and contexts where God is calling our congregation to execute that mission.

On Wednesday as the storm raged, I was sitting in a mall in Boca Raton trying to get internet. One of the stores had a TV with news coverage of the storm.

Starved for information I walked over to watch with a few others. We started talking and I told them I was a Sanibel refugee. The strangers around me stood in shock as I described what little I knew was happening on Sanibel, Captive and Ft Myers.

The conversation ended, and I returned to my computer. A few minutes later one of the store employees came over and said, “I’m sorry but I just have to ask. Why are you so calm? You’re losing everything and yet you seem so nonchalant.” It was a funny question because I didn’t feel calm or nonchalant. Yet that’s what he perceived.

So I started to explain, “Well, I’m a Christian, and I pastor a church…” I didn’t get to finish my sentence. His face lit up and he said, “Of course! You have God. I got it! It all makes sense.” And he walked away smiling.

I bet there are lots of conversations like that waiting for us in the coming weeks and months.

I pray today that wherever you are, you may take time to sit beside the river of God and be filled with his peace. And then take his Word, his gospel, and his love to a helpless and hopeless world that’s still sinking.

Love in Christ,

Pastor Jeramie

After reading Pastor Jeramie’s letter, I found one bit of interesting information about the famous Sanibel lighthouse and outbuildings that were constructed in the 1860s and completed in 1884.  As a result of Hurricane Ian’s furry on Sanibel Island, with barely visible remains of the lighthouse’s outbuildings, the lighthouse itself is still standing…even with one of its supporting legs gone. 

Real responders are people like Pastor Jeramie, responding correctly to setbacks, affliction, suffering, and challenges in life. 

After reading this letter from Pastor Jeramie, I saw a picture of Sanibel Island that looked as if it was scraped nearly clean like the top of a rock.

No matter what challenges we have or will face, “God is our refuge and strength, a helper who is always found in times of trouble.”

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Effective Leaders Are Risk-Takers

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October 21, 2024 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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One problem many leaders have is the gap between what they want to happen and the courage it takes to get there.

You dream of a radically new future, but then you answer emails all day, go to meetings in person or on Zoom, drink caffeine, and go home before it’s too late.  All with far too much of what you didn’t do today and what you did again today leftover for a boring do-it-again tomorrow.

And if you examine a little further, you’ll often find that what lurks under the monotony of every day is fear.  It’s easier to answer emails and be in meetings all day instead of making the bold moves you need to make to secure a better future.

That pattern is not healthy.

To accomplish a profoundly new future, you will have to do profoundly different things.  And that involves risk-taking.

Most of us are frightened of this.  It scares the socks off most of us.  After all, isn’t risk for risk-takers?  And many of us are not wild about taking risks.

So, when you realize fear is holding you back, how do you act?  How do you push past your fear?

Well, start with small steps.  Small victories over fear quickly become larger ones.  It’s like any good muscle; the more you practice overcoming your fears, the more fear you overcome.

What motivates me to grow bolder in my leadership is to consider the alternative, which is not always good.

It’s simple.  If risks aren’t taken in your leadership, you can fail.

  • Your ministry or business will experience few breakthroughs and likely continue down a path of decline to insignificance.
  • You will resign from leadership without any sense of fruit or fulfillment.

Here’s what can be worse.  From a distance, it’s difficult to tell the difference between a leader who is fearful and a leader who is lazy.  Why?  Well, while the motivation is different, the outcome is often indistinguishable.

I believe risk-taking is both a mindset and a habit.  Take a few baby steps toward tackling small challenges, and soon you’ll be up for the bigger ones.

However, if you’re a natural risk-taker, you may feel an inclination the older you get to rest on your past accomplishments or just enduring to the end mentality.  Don’t.

One of the biggest fears in risk-taking is the fear of failure.  But the real failure in risk-taking is the lack of faith – and it is impossible to please God without faith.  I like my team to take risks when it is accompanied by faith in the Lord.  Mistakes will be made, but if we learn from them and continue to take calculated risks, we will fail forward!

Even taking risks like the ones below will get you started for future change and transformation, which is always in season.

After all, the new generation doesn’t care much about what you did yesterday.

Seven Risks Any Leader Can Take Today

So, if you want to stretch your risk-muscle for the first time or the 1000th time, here are seven practical ways to get started now:

  1. Begin Something You Don’t Know How to Complete

It can be truly incredible.  Only tackling stuff you know how to do is a guaranteed path to unproductivity and eventual boredom.

What’s that project at work that paralyzes you?  Get started.  Now.  And see where it takes you.  You will figure it out.  I promise. 

A common phrase you hear around our ministry leaders is, “We’ll figure it out and make it happen.”  And “we can fix the plane while we are flying.  We have the Lord.” 

Most people who make the biggest difference had no idea what they were doing when they began.

Why should it be any different with you?

  1. Do What You Have Been Thinking of Doing But Haven’t Done Yet

Don’t we all have projects we’ve been thinking of doing for years that might be doable but haven’t begun doing them yet?

So, like the Nike commercial in the past…Just do it!

Make the call.  Send the text.  Clean out that drawer.  Start the conversation.  Write page one of the book you’re petrified to begin.

True leaders have a determination for great action, not just great thinking.

  1. Be Generous When You Don’t Feel Like It

Yes, generosity can be risky.  Being financially generous is a risk when you don’t feel like you have the funds to be generous.

Being generous with praise is a risk when you don’t feel like praising someone.

In a world with many reasons to be stingy, generosity can be a risk.  But the key to developing an abundance mentality is being generous.  And people with an abundance mentality often end up taking more risks.

You can start by thanking someone who deserves some thanks even if you don’t feel like giving it.  Or give some money away.  You may surprise yourself with what you get back.  You grow what you plant!

  1. Set A Goal You Think Is Unreachable

You won’t set an audacious goal because you think it’s impossible, which is precisely why you should set it.

It can be small.  You can take this truth to bank: People who set goals accomplish more than people who don’t.

  1. Be Vulnerable

Yes, vulnerability is also a risk.

Bring a close friend in on a struggle you haven’t talked to anyone about yet.  Get over your fear of telling your team you don’t know the answer (I promise you they already know).

    • Being vulnerable sets you up for accepting the failure that inevitably accompanies the risk of failure you’re so scared of.
    • Being vulnerable today will prepare you for a bit of failure tomorrow on your way to more extraordinary accomplishments. Like I said, fail forward.
  1. Give Someone Else An Opportunity You Were Going to Take For Yourself

It’s risky to trust others with something you care about, isn’t it?  Which is why you it is important for you to do it.

Select an opportunity you were personally going to do and offer it to someone else to do it.  It will not only help you have a more empowered leadership but doing so will also position you to generate a stronger and better team moving forward.

As one leadership guru said, “when it comes to accomplishment, if you want to go fast, go alone.  If you want to go further, go with a team.”

  1. Remove Quitting from The Table

When you’re afraid, you think about quitting, don’t you?  So, take it off the table.  Just decide you’re in for the long haul and get moving.

It’s riskier to stay and try than it is to quit and leave.

In the same way, couples who take divorce off the table usually find a way to work through their issues; you will find a way to work through your problems if you move quitting off the table.

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Seven Useful Marks of Good Leadership Character

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October 14, 2024 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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The essential quality of leadership is good character.

“He who walks with integrity walks securely, but he who perverts his ways will become known.”
(Proverbs 10:9 NKJV)

“Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out.” 
(Proverbs 10:9 NIV)

It doesn’t matter how intelligent, capable, or successful a leader is.  Over time they will lose influence if they lack integrity.  In fact, when a leader’s talent rises above their character is the fastest way to lose influence.

When leadership character is talked about, we very quickly come to the trust issue.  If people don’t trust the leader, they won’t follow them, at least not for long.  Good character doesn’t mean mistakes won’t be made, but it does mean people can trust your heart.

Being perfect isn’t expected in good leadership.  You must be trustworthy, not perfect.  When the Lord spoke to Solomon on this issue, He gave helpful insight.

Perfection wasn’t and isn’t required, but a heart of integrity is.

“Now if you walk before Me as your father David walked, in integrity of heart and in uprightness, to do according to all that I have commanded you, and if you keep My statutes and My judgments, then I will establish the throne of your kingdom over Israel forever, as I promised David your father, saying, “You shall not fail to have a man on the throne of Israel.”
 (1 Kings 9:4,5)

“Upright” is the English equivalent most often used for the Hebrew yasar [r;v “y].  Literally, yasar [r;v “y] pertains to that which is vertically erect ( Gen 37:7;  Exod 36:20 ) or horizontally level or smooth ( Isa 26:7 ).  It also means straight ( Isa 40:3 ) or evenly distributed ( 1 Ki 6:35 ).  Application in theological settings brings to mind the notions of unchanging standards, correctness, genuineness, and forthrightness.  From the beginning of the relationship between Israel and God, his nature is reflected as truthful and faithful.  Uprightness is a further moral aspect to Israel’s perception of God’s holy character.  Note the coinciding themes in Moses’ summary hymn of praise: “He is the Rock, his works are perfect, and all his ways are just.  A faithful God who does no wrong, upright and just is he” ( Deu 32:4 ).  Baker’s Evangelical Dictionary of Biblical Theology.

Reading about David shows us he was human and was not perfect.  But he possessed integrity of heart.  Good character allows for human imperfection, but not a constant life of dishonesty, putting self before others, along with the lack of confession and a contrite heart.

Seven useful marks of good character that help me live above reproach:

  1. I live by the same standards that I expect of others.

Leaders often become under pressure, short on time, and face many demands.  That’s when temptation can increase.  One of those temptations is cutting corners and lowering standards, and it quickly erodes character.

Good character requires that you practice the same lifestyle that you expect of others.

  1. What I do when no one is looking is what pleases the Lord.

Dan Reiland wrote A person’s character is never any better than their secrets.  Your secrets slowly consume your soul, erode your character, and in time are exposed.

On the other hand, your character is developed when you purposefully live to please God during the moments when the only one who sees and knows is the Lord.

  1. Those who know me best trust me the most.

One of the greatest compliments on your character will come from family and close friends who see you up close.  For example, my wife’s opinion of my character is of utmost importance.  No one knows me better than she.  I know I’m living the best life if she fully trusts me and is pleased with my integrity.

  1. I keep my promises.

The bond of a leader is his or her word.  It’s vital that you do what you said you would do.  It could be as simple as returning a phone call or something as big as attending a particular activity for one of your kids.

Leaders who keep promises are ones with good character.

  1. I am fiercely committed to honesty.

Everyone is tempted to overstate something, leave out a part of the story, or perhaps even tell a lie.  But a leader should never drop his or her standards in telling the truth.

Part of our sin nature is the potential to be dishonest; therefore, we must purposefully practice truth-telling with diligence.  I recommend that you allow your prayer or accountability partner to have access to your life, inside and out, so that you can stay current in your commitment to honesty.

  1. My heart is sensitive to the prompts of the Holy Spirit.

You can count on the Holy Spirit to guide you in the moment; nothing is too small regarding character development.  Even in “little” things, the problem with disobedience is that it slowly callouses your heart.  You become less receptive to those prompts over time.

The prompt might be a reminder about kindness to your spouse, generosity to a person in need, or communicating the truth in love to a staff member or fellow worker.  It might be to stop gossiping or pray for the people who think you do.

The point is to receive those prompts as a gift from God and respond to them to the best of your ability.

  1. I depend upon the Lord for strength when and where I am weak.

Good character is not a legalistic practice.  Grace does not evaporate when it comes to character.  The Lord knows all the places where we are weak and need strength.

Therefore, we need His help.  Your reliance upon the Lord rather than dependence upon yourself makes all the difference to having good character.  You must exercise discipline, willpower, and personal fortitude, but God’s power is available to help you!  Ask!

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Seven Habits to Conquer Self-Destructive Behaviors

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October 7, 2024 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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Do you know who your biggest enemy is?  It probably isn’t who you think it is.  It’s not the world around you, and it’s not Satan.  Your biggest enemy is you. Why?  Because you get to choose how you respond to Satan and the world me!

The battle inside us can destroy our ministries or professional lives if we let it.  Paul says this of himself, “For what I am doing, I do not understand.  For what I will to do, that I do not practice; but what I hate, that I do.” (Romans 7:15 NKJV).  Those who are honest will agree with that statement. 

Seven weapons of self-destruction that ruin more lives than anything else are shame, runaway thoughts, compulsions, fear, hopelessness, bitterness, and insecurity. 

Ministry or working in the business and professional communities don’t exempt us from these self-destructive behaviors.

But the answer isn’t found in our culture or in a book.  It is only found in a person—Jesus Christ.  Romans 7-8 gives us seven habits that will help set us free from these self-destructive tendencies. 

Let’s make this personal.  I MUST:

  1.  Remind me daily of what Jesus did for me on the cross.

Even being a Christian doesn’t mean we act like one.  Instead, we’re filled with shame, runaway thoughts, and compulsions.  We’re not living like we’re genuinely set free.

Romans 8:1 tells us, “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus…” (NKJV).  Paul isn’t saying we’ll never sin once we become Christians.

However, he does tell us God will not judge us when we sin because Jesus took our judgment on Himself when He died on the cross.  There is now no need to live in shame.  Jesus Christ already paid for the cause of our guilt and shame.

  1. Ask the Holy Spirit to give me better thoughts.

God will answer this prayer.  He wants to give you better thoughts.  Paul writes in Romans 8:5: “For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit, [set their mind on] things of the Spirit.”  (NKJV). 

There are two choices we have with how we think about ourselves.  We can think about our lives the way we usually do—or we can choose to think about it how God does.  I call this the principle of replacement.  Don’t resist negative thoughts if you’re serious about changing your thoughts.  It’s not just resisting negative thoughts but replacing them with positive thoughts from the Holy Spirit.

  1. Realize that I have a new capacity just to say “no.”

Before you became a Christian, all you had was willpower.  But willpower doesn’t last.  Now you have something that does last—the Holy Spirit.  We need to learn how to use His power.  Galatians 5:16 says, “Let the Holy Spirit guide your lives.  Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves.” (NLT) When you let the Holy Spirit guide and empower your life, you won’t live by your sinful nature.  You’ll still have the same urges, temptations, and impulses, but you’ll have the power now to say no to them.

  1. Turn my thoughts to God when I’m afraid.

Recognizing we have a Heavenly Father stronger than anything threatening us challenges our fears.  Romans 8:15,16 tells us, “For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, ‘Abba, Father.’ The Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God” (NKJV). 

Whatever you fear is not out of God’s control.  Just like an earthly parent who loves to comfort their fearful children, God the Father is there, waiting for you to call and lean on Him whenever fear holds you back.  After all, when you’re thoughts are on God, you can’t think so much about your worries.

  1. View the long-term rather than the short-term.

Rick Warren wrote about a study he read that showed how long-term thinking often leads to a more successful life.  As a Christian, this is vital.  Our long-term thinking isn’t 30 or more years down the line.  We’re thinking zillions of years ahead.  We call it eternity. 

Long-term thinking should be like this: “and [since we are His] children, then heirs—heirs of God and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him, that we may also be glorified together.  For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” (Romans 8:17,18 NKJV). 

The Christian life isn’t easy.  Your life in ministry or the business and professional world isn’t easy, either.  If you just see what it is today, you’ll get overwhelmed.  That’s why the Bible tells us to think about eternity, where our suffering will be less painful than the glory of worshiping Jesus forever. 

  1. Remind me that God is good while being large and in charge while being near and dear!

The pain and suffering around us are just part of living in a damaged world.  This damage is described by Paul Romans 8:20: “For the creation was subjected to futility…” (NKJV). The Bible says this kind of brokenness leads to pain in our lives.

But Romans 8 also tells us four important truths to remember as we experience pain.

    • The Holy Spirit is praying for us (Romans 8:26,27).
    • God will use our pain for His good and our gain (Romans 8:28).
    • God wants us to succeed and thrive (Romans 8:31).
    • God will give us what we need, not just what we want (Romans 8:31,32).
  1. Trust that God will never stop loving me.

Paul realized this, and it anchored his ministry.  He writes, “There is nothing in all creation that will ever be able to separate us from the love of God which is ours through Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:39 GNT).  We may lose many things in this life—our loved ones, reputation, money, and so on—but we’ll never lose the love of God.  He will never let go of us, no matter how tough life gets.  Even if we want to let go of him, he will not let go of us.  We can depend upon that truth.

God has given us everything we need to overcome our self-destructive behaviors. Whatever you’re struggling with today doesn’t have to devour you.  Let God strengthen you through these seven habits.

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