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How to Get Out of a Spiritual Slump

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May 12, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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Spiritual ruts are common to every believer. Having been a pastor for over 45 years, I’ve discovered it’s easy to find ourselves in spiritual slumps—times when we don’t feel close to God, even as pastors. The same holds true for Christian leaders in ministry or business.

David experienced this in his walk with God. He wrote about it in multiple places in the Psalms, including Psalm 71: “O God, do not be far from me” (v. 12 NKJV).

We won’t lose our salvation when we go through these dry spells, but we will lose the enjoyment God wants us to have in our relationship with Him.

How will you know if you are in a spiritual slump?

First, you’re no longer focused on loving others. Your heart grows cold. You share God’s Word with others week after week, yet Jesus isn’t warming your heart. Ministry with others becomes a duty, not a delight. 

Second, you stop taking steps of faith. Your vision shrinks.

Does that sound like you? There’s hope. God provides some vital insights from 2 Kings 6 about what to do when you’ve lost your “cutting edge.”

In this surprising story, Elisha goes with a group of prophets to the Jordan River to get some wood to build a place for them to live. They take with them a borrowed ax head, which they lose. And so, in a sense, they lost their “cutting edge,” just like we sometimes do in our spiritual lives. 

The story teaches us four spiritual truths about what we can do when we’re in a spiritual slump.

  1. Admit you lost it.

You need to face reality. Start by admitting you’re not as close to God as you used to be. In 2 Kings 6:5, the man who lost the ax head admitted what he lost: “As one of them was cutting down a tree, the iron ax head fell into the water. ‘Oh no, my lord!’ he cried out. ‘It was borrowed!’” (NIV).

The man had options when he realized he had lost the ax head. He could have given up and let someone else do the work. We’ve all encountered Christians who do that. When they lose their spiritual energy, they step back and let others with more passion do the work.

The man could have left the impression he still had it. Like a Christian who goes through the motions, he could have kept working frantically and feverishly, pretending nothing was wrong. We often choose to do this, too, in ministry and business. 

But that’s not what this man does in 2 Kings 6. He admits he lost the borrowed ax head. 

Admitting your relationship with God has grown distant is difficult. Don’t settle for a ordinary walk with Christ. The most difficult yet essential step is humbly praying, “Lord, I’ve lost the enjoyment. I’ve lost the excitement I once had. I’ve lost my cutting edge, and I need it back.”

  1. Discover where you lost it.

Elisha wanted to know exactly where the man lost the ax head. He asked, “Where did it fall?” (2 Kings 6:6 NKJV).

If we want to reclaim our cutting-edge, we must pinpoint where we lost our close relationship with God. We can lose our spiritual edge for many reasons:

    • Distractions and busyness– Life gets busy, and we forget about God.
    • Disobedience – We’re not doing something God wants us to do, or we are doing something God doesn’t want us to do.
    • Pride – We stop depending on God and try living the Christian life (and do ministry) without His power.
    • Laziness – We stop doing the things that keep us close to God.

We must be honest and specific about losing our spiritual energy. Maybe it’s on the list listed above. Perhaps it’s something different. The good news is that when we confess our sin to God, He is faithful to forgive, cleanse, and restore our relationship with Him.

  1. Count on God to restore your closeness with Him.

What Elisha did when the man told him where he lost the ax head is one of the most fascinating parts of this event. “When he showed him the place, Elisha cut a stick and threw it there, and made the iron float” (2 Kings 6:6 NIV).

Of course, the stick didn’t have any spiritual power. It was just a stick. But Elisha used it as an object lesson of his trust in God. He visibly showed that he believed God would restore what this guy lost. Making an ax head float is impossible, but God specializes in the impossible.

After all this time, you might think God can’t get you out of your slump and give you back your cutting edge. But God is ready to do the impossible in your life. You just need to believe that He will. 

  1. Reach out and receive God’s help.

Look what Elisha said next. “‘Grab it,’ Elisha said. And the man reached out and grabbed it” (2 Kings 6:7 NLT). It would have been easy for God to take the ax head directly out of the water and place it in the man’s hand. But He didn’t do that. He brought it to the top of the water and let him grab it.

It’s up to you to return to God. Just reach out and receive God’s help. 

You choose how close to God you want to be. The distance between you and God isn’t the fault of your congregation, employees, mate, or the culture around you. It’s your choice.

The Bible says, “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you” (James 4:8 NKJV).

The God of the Universe loves you and wants you to have a close relationship with him and for Him to have one with you. But getting close to Him is up to you. It’s your choice. You can remain in a spiritual slump (like leaving the ax head floating on top of the water). Or you can draw near to God (like grabbing the ax) and experience His joy of getting back your cutting edge because His Word promises that in His “presence is fullness of joy” (Psalm 16:11 NKJV).

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Do I Have Idle Abilities Not Being Used?

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May 5, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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“If the master returns and finds that the servant has done a good job, there will be a reward.”

Luke 12:43 (NLT)

Most leaders have abilities that are idle and not being used. Here are three ways to develop abilities: use them for good and God’s glory.

1. Discern your abilities.

Assess your life, an audit of your abilities. Make a list. In what areas are you good? Know your weaknesses and uniquenesses. Consider the capabilities God has given you.

2. Dedicate your abilities.

Commit them to God for the use He intended. Romans 12:1 says, “…present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.” (NKJV). Pray this prayer, “God, you gave me these abilities. Now I’m going to give them back to you. I want to use them for the purpose for which you intended.”

3. Develop your abilities.

That means to practice, improve, sharpen, and develop. Any ability that God has given you can be increased with practice. The Bible says in Ecclesiastes 10:10, “If the ax is dull, and one does not sharpen the edge, then he must use more strength; But wisdom brings success.” (NKJV).

How do you gain skills? Practice. God says a dull ax takes more energy; you need to sharpen your ax. In other words, work smarter, not harder. Honing your abilities—your aptitudes and skills—is a spiritual responsibility.

4. Demonstrate your abilities.

God has invested enormously in you. First, God created you; He then sent His Son Jesus to die for you and divinely designed you with spiritual gifts and personality. God has made a significant investment in your life! And He expects a return on the investment. 1 Peter 4:10, “As each one has received a gift, minister it to one another, as good stewards of the manifold grace of God.”  He will ask you one day, “What did you do with what I gave you? How did you use your abilities to honor me, serve others, make a living, and be an example? How did you use them to help other people?”

In Luke 12:43, Jesus said, “If the master returns and finds that the servant has done a good job, there will be a reward.” Luke 12:43 (NLT) That’s the kind of blessing we desire. 

God wants you to use your abilities in the ways He intended. He wants you to experience his blessing.

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How Prayer Can Grow Your Faith

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April 28, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”
Matthew 7:7 (NKJV)

God cannot only meet all your needs; He’s also eager to meet them! But it’s easy to stop asking for His help and to start depending on yourself when you forget how committed God is to help you.

Do you only ask God for the “big stuff” and not the “small stuff.” Guess what? Everything is small to God. He has numbered every hair on your head and knows how many fell out when you combed your hair!

You’re not troubling God when you make your requests to Him; He’s the one who set up the prayer system in the first place. That’s why the New Testament tells you more than 20 times to ask for whatever you need in prayer. Matthew 7:7 says, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”

Sometimes, you just worry about it instead of asking God for something. Remember, if it’s big enough to worry about, it’s big enough to pray about. Worrying never solves anything, but prayer will.

God grows your faith and trust just like a parent teaches a child to trust. The Bible says,
“If you . . . know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give . . . to those who ask him” (Luke 11:13 NLT). 

It works like this: First, the child recognizes an unmet need. Second, the child expresses that need. Third, the parent meets that need.

God uses this same cycle to teach you how to trust Him: You have an unmet need. You express that unmet need to God. He meets that need, and you learn to trust Him more. 

How can you grow in trust if you’re not expressing your needs to God? 

When you make your requests to the Lord, He always proves His goodness. However, there are times you’ll have to wait patiently for God’s timing to answer. There are times He is not immediate with His answers because He wants to test your faith.

Go ahead—give it a try. Bring your needs to the Lord in prayer. Then wait and watch for the ways He answers your prayers and meets those needs. This way, you’ll learn to trust that God is reliable and that you can count on Him, no matter what.

Ask, answer, and apply:

  • What lies about myself or God keep me from asking for His help?
  • One of the main ways God tests my trust and faith in Him is through my finances. Why do I think this is so?

What do I need help with today? I will start by expressing gratitude for what God has done for me and then ask for His help.

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Making Time to Clean House

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April 21, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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“…let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us.”
Hebrews 12:1 (NKJV)

If you can’t find the motivation to clean your physical house, then cleaning your spiritual house may seem like an enormous task. But this is where you need to put your focus and best energy—because God wants you to use your life to become more like Him. And to do this sometimes requires you to make difficult choices and changes.

The Bible says it like this: “…let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us” (Hebrews 12:1 NKJV)

To choose what you need to clean in your spiritual house, you must decide what changes need to be made in your life. Ask yourself questions like, what is hindering me from moving forward in my spiritual growth?

If you want a healthy body, you may need to keep more nutritious food in your house or create a meal plan. Or maybe you must commit to exercising regularly, even if you start small with 10-15 minutes daily. 

If you want a healthy mind, you may need to unsubscribe to magazines or block channels. You may need to delete some apps or set healthier screen time boundaries.

If you want a healthy schedule, you must decide what’s most valuable to you.

Then you can remove some less-valuable activities—sometimes even good ones—so that you can focus on ones even more valuable to you.

If you want a clean heart, you need to pray, ask God what you need to confess, and then confess those things. This can be the most challenging step of spiritual cleaning.

Through confession, you’re recognizing and rooting out sins that cause unhealthy habits throughout your spiritual house.

The Bible says in Ephesians 4:22, “…put off, concerning your former conduct, the old man which grows corrupt according to the deceitful lusts [desires]” (NKJV).

It’s time to clean house—but it’s not a one-time practice. Just like you must clean your physical home regularly, you must ask hard questions to identify what spiritual rooms need a good cleaning. Then, with God’s blessing, you get to work.

Ask, answer, and apply:

  • Why is it essential to invest time in prayer before I try to clean up any area of my life?
  • What area of my life do I find it most difficult to change?
  • When will I spend some time today talking to God about where I need to do some cleaning in my life? Then I will confess my sin to Him and ask for grace to do the hard but valuable work of change.

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Four Truths to Remember This Easter

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April 14, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

Views: 502

Easter, or better, Resurrection Sunday, is coming.

So much is going on, and it is easy to get distracted from the importance of this celebration. Here are four truths to keep in mind to help reduce the pressure and keep your focus on Christ this Easter:   
1. Remember, it is about the resurrection, not bunnies, decorated eggs, or Peeps. The resurrection was the heart of the Christian witness in the first century (1 Cor. 15:1-4) and still is twenty-one centuries later. This supernatural truth is what God uses to convict, conform, and encourage those who need Christ as their Savior.

2. Remember to rejoice.Easter is a joyful celebration. Hear this encouragement from Jesus on the cusp of His crucifixion: “So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you” (John 16:22 ESV). We will see Him! That is the joy of Easter and the joy no one can take from the believer. Encourage those God brings into your life with this powerful truth: He is risen—He is risen indeed!

3. Remember revival. Encouraging reports of student revival have been flooding social media these days, which is wonderful. Our hearts resonate with those who ask God, “Will you not revive us again, that your people may rejoice in you?” (Psalm 85:6). Easter is a great reason to expect a surge of new life from the Lord. When God’s people are faced with the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus, the stage is set! Easter can be our annual reminder that God desires His people to be fully alive in His resurrected Son; it can be our reminder to pray for revival. Once we are revived, we become more passionate about wanting others to come to faith alone in Christ!

Therefore…

4. Remember to reach out to the lost and disenfranchised. People are more willing to talk about Jesus Christ during this time of year than almost any other time of year other than Christmas!

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Three Ways to Find Joy in Your Leadership Grind

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April 7, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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I’m a fan of the game of baseball. Baseball players, especially professionals, will tell you that baseball is a grind. It is a game played daily, with maybe one day off a week. As a fan, I enjoy it. I can sit and watch my favorite team almost daily (although I am too busy to do it…perhaps because I am in my own grind). The players, though, are the ones out on the field grinding out game after game.
 
Pastoring and leading is a grind—a daily battle. Sermons to prep, meetings to plan and lead, counseling sessions, and administrative decisions, and you would have only reached Tuesday of any given week. And yes, the spectators (congregants) can sit, watch, and enjoy the fruit of our hard labor while we grind.
 
There is joy in this grind, though—if we are careful enough to seek it and make room for it.
 
Here are three ways I found joy in my pastoring and leadership grind. I believe you who do any kind of leadership can find joy in your leadership too. I would love to hear how you find joy in your grind.
 
Grace: My spiritual story is one of radical transformation, from almost never stepping foot in a church until I was 16 to becoming a pastor for over 40 years, and now leading a ministry with so much happening and so many amazing stories in between. I’ve tasted grace and have not lost that taste. There is joy in the grind when we feast on the grace of God. Pastoring is a high and noble calling, and God still lets you do it. I say that in love and because it was certainly true for me. You are where you are because of the grace of Jesus in your life. Pull back from the hectic pace and soak in grace. God has been good, is good, and will be good to you. Let His grace set wind to your sail this week.
 
Pace: I could not do it all. My body and others told me so, loudly and clearly. I’m grateful I pushed aside my pride and realized they were both right. I grew comfortable with how God wired me and chose not to compare myself to other pastors and leaders (at least, not too much). I am who I am, and God, who is all-wise, put me where I could flourish just as I am, not someone else. Let me encourage you to find a pace that is sustainable for you. This is where you will find joy in the grind when you rest in the God who knows you and your limitations and has placed you right where He wants you.
 
Space: While pace is a big-picture focus, space is about the little moments that come week in and week out. I learned to purposely leave room in my weekly schedule to just give God space in my “grind.” An empty space on my calendar that was guilt-free. Those of us on staff at Make It Clear Ministries call this “going dark.” It means shutting off our technology devices. For me, I would use this time to read something enjoyable or what would recharge me, sit in my favorite spot and spend time with Jesus, or enjoy a fun time with my family. The point was not to pack my calendar so full there was no room for me to just enjoy God in the “ordinary” of life.

Guard your week. The grind will always be there, but you don’t always have to grind.

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Using Your Influence for Good

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March 31, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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Everything you have is a gift from God. God has given you your family, health, ministry, business, and even freedom. 

If God didn’t give you the ability to work for what you have, you wouldn’t have anything. 

God expects you to be a good steward of everything he has given, including your Influence. He wants you to use your Influence to help others. 

John Maxwell reduces the meaning of leadership to one word, Influence. Not bad, really. This means anyone can be a leader; all they need to do is be an influencer…influence others for good.

What is Influence? It’s not fame. You can be famous and not influential. Many people know celebrities, but they don’t care what they think. It’s also not wealth. You can’t buy Influence.

The Cambridge Dictionary defines Influence as the power “to affect how someone or something develops, behaves, or thinks.” God expects you to use that kind of Influence for good.

How can you do that? Start with these three steps.

  1. Recognize your Influence.

Everyone has Influence. You’re likely aware of some of your Influence at church and home. 

Yet you might not be aware of all the Influence you have. You influence everyone you come into contact with, such as your relatives, neighbors, and even casual acquaintances. 

When you enter a store, you can make or break the cashier’s day by what you say and do. The same applies to mail carriers, ushers, and salespeople you meet daily. 

You either influence people for Christ or against Christ all the time. God calls us to be good stewards of every kind of Influence we have. Paul writes, “Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done…” (Galatians 6:4 NLT).

Until you can see the Influence you already have, you can’t begin to wield and maximize your Influence for good.

  1. Exercise your Influence.

Our lives would have much more Influence if we became more intentional in how we use it. Your Influence is like a muscle. You’ll either use it or lose it.

These five actions can help you use your Influence and slowly grow it. They start small with simple steps and progress to more complex actions. The final one may even cost you your life one day. The more effort you put in, the greater your Influence will be.

    • Smile at people. Anyone can do this. Smiling has an incredible impact on the people in your life. When you smile at someone, they smile at you. That means you’ve influenced them and affected their day. 
    • Sympathize with people. Show emotional support, encouragement, and care in people’s lives. When you show people you care, you open the door for Influence within their life. 
    • Serve people. God’s economy says the greater you serve someone, the greater your influence on them. Serving people takes effort because you can’t do it from a distance. 
    • Speak up. Psalm 107:2 reminds us, “Let the redeemed of the Lord say so” (KJV). You can’t be afraid to discuss your relationship with Christ to influence others openly.  
    • Sacrifice. You can’t live a comfortable life if you want to have Influence. You’ll need to make sacrifices to influence the world. While this can mean huge, life-altering sacrifices, it often means everyday sacrifices in the normal activities of life.
  1. Maximize your Influence.

Do your best to develop and expand your Influence. At first, that might seem arrogant, but you aren’t expanding your Influence for your own sake. God himself tells us to maximize our Influence. The Bible says, “See then that you walk circumspectly…as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.” (Ephesians 5:15, 16 NKJV).

Instead of being selfish, you’re expanding your Influence for Jesus’ sake. That’s the reason you exist. Otherwise, he’d take you straight to heaven when you get saved.

You only have two legitimate reasons to expand your Influence—to help people and to share Christ with others. Any other reason is selfishness.

Psalm 72 states Solomon prayed when he was the wealthiest and wisest person in the world. It sounds arrogant for him to then pray for more power and Influence. But Solomon’s prayer is anything but selfish.

Notice what Solomon wants to do with his Influence. He wants to help society’s most vulnerable. He prays, “For He will deliver the needy when he cries, the poor also, and him who has no helper. He will spare the poor and needy, and will save the souls of the needy.” (Psalm 72:12-13 NKJV).

God expects us to use the Influence he has given us to speak up for those who can’t speak up for themselves. 

You might not think you have much Influence right now. You feel you’re serving in the middle of nowhere and have limited impact.

That couldn’t be further from the truth. Remember the story of Moses. He was an ordinary shepherd on the backside of the desert. But Moses obeyed when God told him to give up his staff—the source of his identity, income, and Influence as a shepherd. 

Throughout the rest of Moses’ life, God used that same staff to do miracles, like turning the water of the Nile into blood and splitting the Red Sea. 

Moses gave what little he had to God so that he could influence the world for good and for God. The world was never the same again.

Are you ready to lay down everything to use your Influence for God?

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The Five Signs of Spiritual Maturity

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March 24, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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Whether in ministry, business, or any profession, and even if you are retired, God wants all of us to grow in maturity. Maturity is one of His expectations for our lives. In fact, Hebrews 6:1 tells us, “Let us press on to maturity” (NASB). The Lord intends for us to seek our spiritual life development to “be conformed to the image of His Son” (Romans 8:29 NKJV).  

One of God’s five purposes for your leadership is to help your team, and others grow in spiritual maturity. But there’s a lot of confusion about what Christian maturity looks like. As you make disciples, you must clearly understand what it means to grow and become more like Jesus. 

Maturity isn’t about age. You can be a Christian for 50 years and still not be mature. God doesn’t want us to grow old in Christ.  He wants us to grow up in Christ!

Maturity isn’t about appearance. Some people may look spiritually mature, but they aren’t. Just because someone appears dignified, it doesn’t mean they are holy. 

Maturity isn’t about achievement. You can accomplish much without being mature in your faith. 

Maturity isn’t about academics. A Bible college, seminary degree, or one from a prestigious university won’t make you spiritually mature. 

Comparing yourself to anyone else won’t make you mature. You become mature by comparing yourself to the Word of God. The book of James is a handbook on how to be mature.

It gives us five signs of spiritual maturity.

  1. A mature person is positive under pressure. “Dear brothers and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow. So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing”(James 1:2-4 NLT).

    Becoming a Christian by faith alone in Christ doesn’t mean you won’t face troubles. The question isn’t whether you’ll experience problems but how you respond to them. Do you get worried, tense, negative, or even hostile? Do you grumble and mumble about them?

    Even if you are full of Bible knowledge, you can still be grumpy under pressure. A mature Christian can be under stress and still be joyful.
  2. A mature person is sensitive to people.“If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself,’ you do well” (James 2:8 NKJV).

    When children are immature, they are entirely focused on themselves. But mature people don’t just see their own needs; they see the needs of others. 

    Jesus tells us in Matthew 25:31-46 that we’ll be judged for how we treat others—not how many Bible verses we know or how often we attend church or small group Bible studies. 
  1. A mature person has mastered his mouth. “For we all stumble in many things. If anyone does not stumble in word, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle the whole body.” (James 3:2 NKJV). 

    When you go for a checkup, doctors often say, “Stick out your tongue.” The doctor looks at your tongue to check your health. Do you know that God does that spiritually, too?

    James 3 gives us several illustrations regarding the tongue. The chapter calls it a bridle to a horse (3:3), a rudder to a ship (3:4), and a spark to a fire (3:5-6). James 3:8 says, “But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.” (NKJV).

    Earlier in the book, James writes:“If anyone among you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this one’s religion is useless.” (James 1:26 NJKV). Gossip, spreading rumors, and constant negative talk are signs you’re immature in the faith.
  1. A mature person is a peacemaker, not a troublemaker. “What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don’t they come from the evil desires at war within you?” (James 4:1 NLT). 

    Don’t we all know Christians who instead of making peace, they make trouble? It isn’t a Christian virtue to cause conflict. In fact, the opposite is true. It’s a sign of immaturity. 

    James tells us pride, selfishness, and judgmentalism are the three most significant sources of conflict in our lives. They prevent us from the Christ-like maturity Jesus expects us to pursue. Pride keeps us from admitting we’re wrong. Judgmentalism puts us in place of God. 

    Christian maturity means saying no to prideful, selfish, and judgmental attitudes that regularly cause conflict.
  2. A mature person is patient and prayerful. “Dear brothers and sisters, be patient as you wait for the Lord’s return. Consider the farmers who patiently wait for the rains in the fall and in the spring. They eagerly look for the valuable harvest to ripen. You, too, must be patient. Take courage, for the coming of the Lord is near” (James 5:7-8 NLT).

    Patience and prayerfulness go together. They show an attitude of dependence upon the Lord that marks a mature believer. As James 5 notes, it’s a description that farmers understand. Farmers do a lot of waiting. You won’t find any overnight crops. We must wait for God to work in our lives. If you can’t wait, you can’t be patient. Patience is a critical sign of maturity.

As you’re attempting to influence people to grow spiritually, don’t become a victim to thinking that those in your church, ministry, or where you work who know the most Scripture are also spiritually mature. Instead, observe how God is transforming their character. Ask yourself:

  • How does this person handle problems?
  • Is this person sensitive to other people?
  • How effectively does this person tame his or her tongue?
  • Is this person a peacemaker or a troublemaker?
  • Does this person pray without giving up?

Then ask yourself the same questions about your maturity.

That’s the kind of person who is mature and growing in Christlikeness.

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How to Find Joy in Your Relationships

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March 17, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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Relationships are at the heart of every ministry and business…and should be of every leader.  Every task is somehow connected to a person, so relationships are essential.  Whether those relationships are with your family, faith-family, colleagues at work, or community, having joy in them makes them a little bit sweeter too!  If not, you’ll be miserable in life and ministry if your relationships aren’t healthy.

God wants us to enjoy the people in our lives.  In the book of Philippians, Paul models four principles to help us find joy in our relationships. 

  1. Be grateful for the good in people.“I thank my God upon every remembrance of you” (Philippians 1:3 NKJV).

Instead of focusing on the bad memories, Paul focused on the good memories he had.  And if you recall in Acts 16, you’ll remember the bad memories Paul could have focused on while he was in Philippi but didn’t.  He was arrested, whipped, humiliated, and thrown in prison.  While in prison, there was an earthquake.  Then the Roman officials in the town asked him to leave.  Paul had a rough time in Philippi, but he chose to focus on what he was grateful for. 

To follow Paul’s example, we don’t need to deny the hurts in our lives.  Neither do we need to excuse the weaknesses of others.  Instead, focus on the good and emphasize the strengths of other people.

  1. Practice positive praying.“Always in every prayer of mine making request for you all with joy” (Philippians 1:4 NKJV).

If you pray positively for people, you will change your attitude and the other person’s.  People may resist our advice, spurn our appeals, reject our suggestions, and not accept our help, but they are powerless against our prayers!

In Philippians 1:9-11 (NKJV), Paul models four ways to pray positively for others.

    1. Pray they will grow in love. “Your love may abound.” (This phrase means to overflow, like a tidal wave.)
    2. Pray they make wise choices. “In knowledge and all discernment.”
    3. Pray they will do the right thing. “Be sincere and without offense.”
    4. Pray they will live for God’s glory. “Being filled with the fruits of righteousness which are by Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.”

Most of us are good at praying for people in crisis, but let’s commit to praying specifically and regularly for people who may struggle in these four areas.  Doing so will transform our relationships with them.

  1. Be patient with people’s progress.“Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ;” (Philippians 1:6 NKJV).

Paul considered people’s future, not just their past.  He looked at their potential and was patient with their progress.

Humanity is a great starter but a lousy finisher.  It leaves unfinished symphonies, buildings, books, and projects.  People don’t always finish what they start, but God always finishes what He starts.

We should model God’s patience with people’s progress.  To enjoy people, we must give them room to grow and develop, just as God does with us.

  1. Love people from the heart.“For God is my witness, how greatly I long for you all with the affection of Jesus Christ.” (Philippians 1:8 NKJV).

Loving people begins with understanding why they act the way they do.  You can’t love people you don’t understand.  If you care, you’ll be aware.

You get understanding by asking questions and then listening to the responses. 

Understanding people helps you love them better, but it still doesn’t get you to the love Paul described in Philippians 1:8.  Paul said he loved the church of Philippi “with the tender compassion of Christ Jesus” (NLT).  Only Jesus—working through you—can love people like that. 

God’s love isn’t something you can force.  It’s a gift you get as you let the Holy Spirit work through you. “The love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.” (Romans 5:5 NKJV).

Life is too short not to enjoy the people in your life, especially those you serve and lead.  If you don’t learn to enjoy those the Lord has placed in your life, you will be miserable.  That’s why you need to learn how to respond to them as Jesus did. 

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What Fear Can Do To Leaders

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March 10, 2025 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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There is always risk-taking in leadership. You don’t need to indulge every risk in front of you, but you do need to take every risk God wants you to take, even when you’re afraid. 

Maybe you’re uprooting your family like I did to go somewhere new to add to what the Lord is doing with Make It Clear Ministries. Or you’re starting a brand-new ministry or business opportunity, and you have no idea how you’ll fund it. Opportunities like these will require you to take risks with a large portion of faith because “without faith it is impossible to please God” (Hebrews 11:6 NIV). 

Why is it important to the Lord that we learn to take risks? Because He wants us to learn to trust Him. And we can’t lead others to live by faith if we refuse to do it ourselves.

Throughout the Bible, God calls people to take risks in faith. In Exodus 14, before the Israelites crossed the Red Sea with the Egyptians in pursuit, they became fearful. Here are four things we learn from the Israelites about fear.

    1. Fear makes us skeptical. 

“[The Israelites] said to Moses, ‘Why did you bring us out here to die in the wilderness?’” (Exodus 14:11 NLT). When we’re afraid, we begin to doubt and pull back from taking risks. We doubt ourselves. We doubt God. In fact, fear is a common problem for skeptics and those who don’t know the Lord well. They often ridicule what they’re afraid of.

    1. Fear makes us selfish.

“What have you done to us?” (Exodus 14:11 NLT). Fear makes leaders only think of themselves—not other people. The Israelites could only think of the problems they were facing. We often do the same when we’re afraid. We’re quick to accuse others, excuse ourselves, blame other people, and run from responsibility.

    1. Fear makes us stubborn. 

“Didn’t we tell you this would happen while we were still in Egypt? We said, ‘Leave us alone!’” (Exodus 14:12 NLT). We resist change when we’re afraid. The Israelites told Moses, “Don’t rock the boat. Don’t mess with the status quo. We’ve always done it this way.” Fear keeps people and churches from growing because it causes us to be stubborn. It keeps us from admitting our mistakes. The old saying is true: “The hardest thing to open is a closed mind.”

    1. Fear makes us short-sighted.

“It’s better to be a slave in Egypt than a corpse in the wilderness!” (Exodus 14:12 NLT). When the Israelites were confronted with the Red Sea, they wanted to go back to the “good old days” in Egypt. They wanted to retreat.

Fellow leader, fear will make you want to retreat, too, keeping you from being all God wants you to be. It’ll limit your talents. It’ll cause you to pull back. 

Remember what happened to the disciples in John 20 after Jesus had been crucified? The disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jewish authorities. They were afraid. That’s what fear does; it always locks doors from the inside. 

And fear will limit your potential. 

Paul Tournier says it like this: “All of us have vast reservoirs of full potential. But the road that leads to those reservoirs is guarded by the dragon of fear.” 

God has a great work planned for you on the other side of your fear. Are you ready to step into it?

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