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God Is in the Shadows with You!

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November 27, 2023 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.”
Psalm 23:4 (NASB)

As leaders we will walk through shadows of suffering and maybe even the shadow of death. At the least, we may be called on to walk through these shadows with others.

One of the common sources of stress is loss. You can lose a loved one, your health, your ministry position, your money, or your reputation.

When people experience loss, they usually have one of the two most common reactions: fear and grief. Grief is good. Grief is the way we get through the transitions of life. In fact, if you don’t grieve, you get stuck! Grief will not destroy you if you let it out.

On the other hand, fear is a bad thing. Not once in the Bible does it say, “Grieve not,” “Sorrow not,” “Weep not,” or “Cry not.” What it does say is “Fear not.” And it says that 365 times! Grief doesn’t paralyze, but fear does.

David says in Psalm 23:4, “Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.”

Shepherds always carry a rod and a staff to protect their sheep. A rod to defend against wolves and a staff to lift fallen sheep caught in rocks. David knew that in the same way, God has the tools to protect him, and he trusted God, even in the darkest valleys.

Perhaps you are going through the valley of the shadow right now—maybe the valley of the shadow of death. It may be the valley of the shadow of debt. It may be the valley of the shadow of conflict. It may be the valley of the shadow of depression. It may be the valley of the shadow of discouragement. It may be the shadow of unfulfilled expectations.

Shadows are scary. But here are some truths you need to remember about shadows:

First, shadows can’t hurt you.
Second, shadows are always bigger than their actual source.
Third, shadows let you know there must be a light.

You can’t have a shadow without light. So, when you’re going through the valley of the shadow, turn your back on the shadow and look at the light. Because as long as you keep your eyes on the light—Jesus, who is the light of the world—the shadow won’t scare you. Jesus said, “I am the Light of the world…” (John 8:12a NASB)

That’s how you go through the valley of the shadow of death. That’s how you lower your stress. You trust God in the dark valleys, just like David did, who prayed, “When my spirit was overwhelmed within me, You knew my path.” (Psalm 142:3 NASB).

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Three Spiritual Phrases Christian Leaders Should Consider Not Saying

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November 20, 2023 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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I often hear from people who say, “We don’t any need more ideas / strategies / conferences / skills… all we need to do is ________,” and then they fill in the blank with something that sounds spiritual.

Maybe you have people like that at your ministry, business, church, or someone like that on your team.

It’s amazing how common this perspective is.

You know the drill. Every time you suggest “Why don’t we try reformatting our services, attempting something new, reaching out into the community,” or any other new approach they shoot back with “what we really need to do is just pray” (or “what we really need to do is get back to the Bible…”) as though that settled the discussion.

Sometimes, of course, it’s not other people who have the problem. Maybe you’ve fallen for a leadership cop-out, too—dodging the real issue by putting a spiritual mask over it.

Can it be that something that sounds so spiritual can actually stop some very spiritual work?

Well, yes. The answer is yes. In the name of God, some people end up opposing the work of God. And it’s all done in the most holy-sounding way.

Here are three leadership cop-outs that sound spiritual but aren’t.

1. All We Need To Do Is Pray About It

This sounds so good. After all, how can prayer be a BAD thing?

I mean how are you supposed to counter that? It puts you or anyone around you in a horribly awkward position.

If you disagree, you sound like you’re coming out against prayer.

If you agree, you’ve just mothballed any productive strategy conversations.

I mean who really wants to come out against prayer? Not me. Not you.

And so, not sure what to do, we shut down the leadership conversation and all the potential that comes with it.

Prayer alone can become a smokescreen. Why? Because while prayer is foundational,
God almost always moves people to do something.

The walls of Jericho ultimately fell because having heard from God, people obeyed God, marching around the city for a week, blasting trumpets and shouting.

The early church grew because Paul prayed day and night then got out on a boat, escaped from jail, and kept preaching the Gospel even if it put his life in danger, which it did again and again.

Jesus prayed all night long and then went out from city to city encountering people in a way that changed their lives and the world.

All this kind of sounds like strategy, doesn’t it?

Interestingly, the scripture is filled with strategy if you look for it.

I haven’t become an atheist. I agree that the ministries, businesses, and churches need more prayer and I believe all authentic, effective work is rooted in prayer.

But saying “All we need to do is pray” can really miss how God works.

If all we needed to do was pray, we could lock ourselves in a closet and never come out. But I’m not sure that’s how God has moved historically.

What begins in prayer should end in some kind of action, because prayer without action lacks courage.

As Augustine said, pray as though everything depended on God; work as though everything depended on you.

2. We’re Just Being Faithful

I’ve seen too many leaders behave like faithfulness and effectiveness are mutually exclusive.

They’re not.

Just because you’re being effective doesn’t mean you’re being faithful, but just because you’re being faithful doesn’t mean you’ll be ineffective.

And yet time and again I’ve seen leaders use faithfulness to justify a lack of fruitfulness.

Sometimes you just must call a spade a spade.

No, you’re not being faithful. You’re being ineffective. (Enough said.)

3. Jesus Didn’t Have a Strategy

People often tell me “Jesus didn’t have a strategy.”

Actually, He did.

He needed one. The opposition to His ministry was so intense to approach it in a haphazard, poorly-thought-through way would have meant disaster.

Think about it.

He prepared for thirty years for a three-year mission. that’s a 10:1 preparation to accomplishment ratio. He spent ten years preparing for every year of ministry He did.

During His active ministry, Jesus would disappear again and again to pray. He knew His private input would need to exceed His public output.

Jesus intentionally organized His community of disciples into concentric circles of 70, 12, 3 and then 1. His prayer resulted in action…thoughtful action. He built a succession strategy directly into His ministry.

The night before He went to the cross, He talked to God all night in agony to prepare Him for what was ahead. Do you know what that was? It was a strategy.

Leaders, a great strategy is a wonderful companion to a great prayer life.

And it’s not just Jesus who thought and acted strategically. God noticed that Moses had a bad leadership strategy that was ultimately going to wear out both him and the people.

So, God used Moses’ father-in-law (of all people) to give him a new strategy that required tremendous reorganization.

The early church continually rethought its strategy as the church grew and the mission expanded (see Acts 6, Acts 13, and Acts 15 as examples).

Sometimes church people behave like strategy is the enemy.

It’s not. It has never been.

Strategy is not the enemy. Overly simplistic thinking is.

So, what’s the point?

Strategy should be a good word in the church. And it should be a good word in your church.

That means you should have the tough conversations.

You should surface disagreements (even pray through them).

You shouldn’t skirt tough issues.

It also means you need to lead.

Leadership requires your heart, but it doesn’t stop there. It requires your soul, your strength, AND your mind.

So, use your mind. And your strength. And your soul.

Please Don’t Misunderstand Me…

Please don’t misunderstand me, praying and getting back to the Bible are incredibly important and essential, it is not the only thing we are to do in leadership.

So Next Time…
So next time someone interrupts the conversation and says “What we really need to do is pray” …what should you do?

I think you might agree…and say “I agree. We should pray.”

But then add.

“And after we pray, let’s get working on the most important issues facing us. The mission is just too important to ignore them.”

And when people say their being faithful, challenge them to be effective. When people say Jesus didn’t have a strategy, beg to differ, and sharpen your strategy (prayerfully, of
course).

Great prayer can and should lead to great action.

It’s time for the us to act. And to get the best strategy we can find to accomplish the mission God has given us.

 

 

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3 Principles to Guide You When Nuance Overtakes Strategy

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November 13, 2023 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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You are leading in a time when tension, complexity, and uncertainty seem to lead the way.

It’s difficult to get in front and lead when circumstances and culture change so rapidly. Yet, leadership is our responsibility, and now more than ever. 

  • Racial injustice has reached a tipping point. 
  • COVID-19 and decisions by those in government continue to increase our economic challenges for businesses and families.
  • Getting people to return to regular church involvement continues to bring more questions than answers. 

Plus, the problems you faced before more recent events and cultural impacts. 

With all this, as leaders, it’s up to us to bring hope, seize opportunities, and point the way. 

No small task, right? 

The good news is that you are not expected to lead perfectly, but only to do your best to make progress in the right direction.

Take the next right step by doing the next right thing.  I appreciate the insights I gained from Dan Reiland for this edition of Leadership Helps.

It’s easier to write that in this article than actually do it, I know, I lead in a ministry too. 

Leadership requires a great deal of thought, prayer, and work.  

But every new day, I’m ready to see what good I can do and what progress I can make. I’ll be candid with you, there are days when it seems like I’ve taken two steps back, (or in fact have), but the next day I resolve once again to move forward. 

That’s my encouragement to you. 

No matter how frustrated or discouraged, you may get, start fresh again the next day, striving to know the next best step you can take. 

Bottom line… 

Move forward. 

Even just a little. 

Any progress is good. (Repeat that to yourself many times.)

Let me try to make this practical. 

I believe deeply in a strategy to make progress toward your vision, and that you need to stick to that strategy. 

However, there are rare times when circumstances seem to say that leading according to artful nuance, the complexity of culture, and the speed of change takes priority over the strategy. 

3 principles that will help you lead more effectively over the next few months:

1. Place values over pressure.

    It’s impossible to meet every need and solve every problem. In fact, if you try, you will likely not make a lasting difference with anything. 

    There are enough things that we cannot and should not ignore, like those I listed at the beginning of the post—realities such as COVID, racial injustice, economic uncertainty, and obviously more.

    But within this growing list of significant issues, there are still many decisions about what you can do to make a difference. 

    Now is the time to make sure you and your team have a deep connection to your spiritual leadership-based core values so that you can respond correctly to external pressures. 

    This has become an interesting time to engage in such a project. I can sense how internal and external pressures can push on, ironically, the very process of a fresh touch to wording.

    The practical point is this. 

    Take some time with your team and talk about your values. 

    Get honest about the pressures you are facing. Literally, list them out. Talk about what you want to do, what you can do, and the ever important, what you actually will do.

    Throughout that conversation, ask if your actions will align with your values.

    2. Embrace adaptation over collaboration. 

    I wouldn’t normally put adaptation and collaboration even in mild tension with each other. I still think that adaptation is the result of strong collaboration; however, this unprecedented season calls for it.

    Let me explain why.

    It’s the only way to keep up with the speed of change. 

    I will always believe in collaboration and note that I didn’t say abandon it. It’s just for this intense season that sometimes adaptation may need to override collaboration.  

    If we take the time you and I would like for collaboration, we will likely miss the window for change and fall behind the curve. Your leadership may be inadvertently rendered ineffective because you gave too much time to assessment rather than moving to action. 

    Talk? Of course. Pray and get wise counsel from the team. But don’t get stuck in conversation that doesn’t go anywhere. This complex season requires adapting to change at high speed.

    Adapt to what I’m calling a “moving strategy.” You know from the beginning of this post that I’m a die-hard believer in a strong strategy and sticking to it. But your strategy must serve you, not you serve your strategy. 

    Keep your strategy flexible. If it remains value-based and vision-driven, that will keep you on course but allow you to move in the moment as needed.

    3. Wrestle the tension between the speed of life and the speed of love.

    Where the first two points are more organizationally driven, this point asks you also to consider when you need to slow down to connect personally regardless of the pressures, tensions, and complexities you are facing.

    Deeper, honest, more unified, and heart-felt relationships are a significant part of the solution to many of the problems we face.

    If you were to draw a diagonal line with an arrow up and toward the right, you would label it “the speed of life.” Then draw a second line with an arrow downward, crossing the first line, and label it “the speed of love.” 

    The speed of life says do as much as you can, as fast as you can, with the calling and resources God has given you. The speed of love calibrates the speed of life, saying slow down enough to care for, nurture, and enjoy the relationships closest to you and those God calls you to.

    They intersect in a different place for every person and for every organization.

    According to the needs of your relationships, the line for the speed of love can move either higher or lower along the line of the speed of life.

    Accomplish all you can, but never sacrifice relationships. 

    This is always a tension for passionate leaders called to a purpose. But in community, we can remind each other of what is truly important even when leading is more difficult than ever before.

    • Remain values-driven
    • Adapt quickly
    • Never lose sight of the speed of love. 
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    How to Be a Resilient Leader Like Jesus

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    November 6, 2023 by Stan Ponz No Comments

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    Ministry and leading in the business and professional world can be stressful. You know that as well as I do. But there is hope for the crushing stress many leaders face today—and we find this hope in the example of Jesus.

    Nobody experienced greater stress than Jesus Christ. He was criticized constantly and pulled in so many directions. He had little privacy, and people often tried to kill Him.

    Yet Jesus’ ministry was characterized by amazing peacefulness. No matter how difficult the situation became, He modeled calmness and resilience in the face of outrageous demands. 

    Here are seven principles we can learn from Jesus’ example of resilience amid stress.

    Remember how much God loves you.

    God loves us extravagantly, and Jesus clearly knew this. He says this in John 10:17, “My Father loves me” (NKJV). When you realize that God loves you and that nothing you ever do will stop his love, you have the foundation you need for resilience. 

    God’s love for you is the basis for your personal security. If you aren’t absolutely convinced God loves you unconditionally and completely, you’ll be easy prey for the disapproval of others and fall into people-pleasing.

    Remember who you are.

    Jesus never had doubts about his identity. In fact, 18 times in the Bible, he publicly defines himself by saying:

    — “I am the light of the world.”

    — “I am the son of God.”

    — “I am the way.”

    — “I am the truth.”

    — “I am the life.”

    — “I am the bread of life.”

    When you don’t understand who you are, other people will define you. They’ll force you into a stress-inducing mold of their choosing. You’ll end up becoming the Christian leader everyone else wants you to be instead of who God wants you to be. 

    Know who you’re trying to please.

    Trying to please everyone will cause you stress. You simply can’t do it. In fact, Jesus reminds us that no one can serve two masters (Matthew 6:24). 

    As a pastor and leader for over 40 years, I’ve realized I can’t please everyone in my congregation. Each person has a different expectation. The Bible says the fear of man is a trap. That’s why Jesus chose to focus on pleasing God, the Father. He said, “I can of Myself do nothing. As I hear, I judge; and My judgment is righteous, because I do not seek My own will [to please myself] but the will [to please] of the Father who sent Me.” (John 5:30 NKJV).

    You likely hear from people on a regular basis about what you should be doing in your ministry, your family life, and so on. It can get overwhelming. But here’s the good news—it’s always the right choice to please God. Understanding this simplifies your life and reduces your stress in the process. 

    Know your calling.

    If you want to be resistant to stress, you need to know exactly what God has called you to do with your life. Jesus described his sense of calling in John 8:14: “I know where I came from and where I am going” (NKJV). Jesus understood his purpose, and he pursued it. 

    Everyone has a calling, whether you’re in the business and professional world like an accountant, a teacher, an actor—or a pastor. Every day, you need to ask yourself whether you are moving toward the unique calling God has for your life or if you’re moving away from it. 

    Focus on what matters most.

    Jesus had a goal, knew what it was, and moved toward it with powerful resolve. Luke describes Jesus’ sense of focus like this: “Now it came to pass, when the time had come for Him to be received up, that He steadfastly set His face to go to Jerusalem” (Luke 9:51 NKJV).

    Jesus knew He was going to Jerusalem to die. He was determined to do what God called Him to do.

    You have incredible spiritual potential. Often, the barrier to fulfilling that potential isn’t your talent. It’s that you haven’t settled on your calling.  

    The older I get, the more I realize: The key to effectiveness is concentration. It’s focusing like a laser on what God has called you to do. 

    Spend time alone with the Lord.

    Prayer is one of the most important stress-relievers we have at our disposal. The Bible says it was Jesus’ habit to pray (Luke 22:39). Even Jesus needed time in His life to reflect, renew, and recharge. Jesus was convinced that no matter how busy He was, He needed to take time to be alone with God the Father and pray.

    We all need this habit in our lives. Start your morning with the Lord instead of your email, Facebook, twitter, phone, TV, or the radio. Set your mood with the Good News!

    Colossians 2:7 says, “Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives be built on him” (NLT). It’s easy to let your time with the Lord slide when your life gets busy, but if you plant your life in Christ every morning, you’ll soon find your stress level dropping.

    Join a small group for support.

    The first thing Jesus did when He started His ministry is form a small group. Mark 3:14 tells us, “He appointed twelve, whom he also named apostles, to be with him” (CSB). Jesus realized we were never intended to handle the stress of ministry by ourselves. He made sure he had help.

    Having two groups of men in my life…a very small group of leaders on my team for accountability, and a larger one I meet with on Thursday mornings help me stay grounded and centered on the Lord and who I really am. And I really look forward to being with them and gaining from them!

    Much of our stress is self-imposed. We think everything in our ministries depends on us. It doesn’t. God hasn’t called us to be the general manager of the universe. 

    The truth is, Make It Clear Ministries outgrew me years ago. I could never do it by myself. From the start, I looked for ways to give my ministry away—even my preaching and speaking. God didn’t intend any church, ministry, or business to be a superstar show. 

    Stress is increasing throughout our culture, not just in ministry. Reducing your stress won’t happen by accident. It takes intentionality. These seven intentional steps can help you navigate stress the way Jesus did.

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